JNR i feel ya No findings against me but want to go through a program to get him back home with me, so I let him stay with a school friend parents. The issue Im having is that my ex wifes mother interrupts my visits, ends the visits 10 minutes from me seeing my son and now is not even showing up. Yes, i believe a child needs both parents, but its not always that simple. mind was already made up and if my son didnt answer the way I needed him to he The Mother of my children and I have been separated for almost two years but she has never found any new significant other, consequently I am only dealing with her bitterness and ire. I have no affiliation with the attached web site, its just helped families I know. My husband has to refuse to send them for them to do any activites that are scheduled by other people that land on her visitation time. The Idaho child custody interference statute is just such a limitation as applied to a parent. I also dont want to make my daughter hate me more. Im sure his lawyer will continue but I feel I should still appear for court Thursday Will it look better on me if I still appear in court wanting custody of my two kids. But that is tough to prove beyond doubt in court. I feel for you as I too am a non-custodial parent (I cringe at even that term as once a parent always a parent). Her daughter and her daughters 4-year old twins have lived with her off and on for the last 4 years. As she gets older, school functions and sports activities are all on the weekends. It hurts terribly that I cant see him more often, but try to teach him values of love and understanding when I do get him. She returned 48hrs later and we signed a parenting time agreement that laid out dates and times as well as our agreement for shared legal and physical custody of our daughter that we would follow until mediation. Hi, my exhusband has sole conservatory. My husband brought her with them to care for our son. I have documented this all and he refuses to get her a proper child seat for her as she is now in a front facing seat. And the father shame on him for playing with your kids emotions. When they go out the will do a report, or in DCFs case an investigation. My question is this, my ex-husband got remarried and moved to another state. My heart goes out to you on this as I am going through something very similar on my end as my ex took our 4 kids to Illinois which I granted her 30 days to see her ailing mother and she never returned. What are my rights? I have visitation schedule ordered through the court but the mother moved and I have not been able to locate her or my son. The father falsified a restraining order and after I was off of probation from falsified charges from the girlfriend, I took the kids and went back home to NM. I hope you arent alienating your sons father from his own father.. Legal Help. He has no gain to take them except because their his children and he loves them. There is no custody order in place and the child has been with my daughter since birth. Eventually, I called CPS again and made a report because my son said his dad was covering his face with a pillow so he couldnt breathe and choking him until he saw black; as well as punching him in his stomach and private area. He is also in violation of his child support order. We have no custody paper work established in the court of law. We are in Crawford County, Ga which doesnt know there own State laws so I took the liberty of looking them up. The last time I saw my daughter in person was in January, we had a great time and there was no issue between her and I. her on the internet. Now that I laid the foundation I will pose my question. Kids are the ones who suffer. My ex had visitation in his home state of Louisiana. You must document everything; dates, times, witnesses (school), etc. Well my daughter is due to go back to him tomorrow and were all terified he told her he would hurt her if she told!! I have been divorced for 8 yrs now. when is it considered kidnapping? Breaking of custody agreement, what do I do? If you don't file a motion for temporary orders, ask the court how to get your hearing date. The worst thing that can happen is you are told no and have to wait until he is 18. i was wondering my husband divorce agreement from court with his ex wife stating he gets his children every other weekend we try every weekend only because ever weekend she says it is her weekend so if we ask every weekend one of them got to be his she refuse to let us have the kids she tells us she has plans its her weekend she always has some excuse we live in ohio and i dont know how much a divorce agreement holds up but if we showed up at her house on his weekend and she refuses to let him have them can we have the cops called and would they be able to make her let us have the kids since we have the agreement i hope that someone will be able to help me in this because he really wants to see his children she just refuses to let him and he works so hard to pay his child support. My husband and his ex-wife have Shared Legal custody in the state of Florida. My exs attorney and I came to an agreement on custody and parenting time just a week ago. Sandy. and that we are not a happy family. She had told the courts that she could provide better for the children in N.C. because she will be living in a home on her parents property. the Judge may see you as remorseful and possibly keep you out of jail or keep joint custody. what do these adults say when you talk to them? She turned 18 a short time later but I only found out about her dropping out of school, being arrested and going to court (with her aunt) and how she was left on her own every night to take care of my 87 year old dad. Live without your child as the dad has and see what it is like. Also the neighborhood they live in is very dangerous, with 90 sex offenders within one mile of their home. Dont be afraid to ask for help as those at the clerks office can answer some general questions. Even then, Id watch her like a hawk because she may just be crazy enough to take him out of the country. I live in Florida with my son who is 7. And my oldest son has told me that her boyfriend spanks him and his brother and that he yells at them all the time. Some states do not care what the childs wishes are. I got an attorney and she never even showed up to court after I paid her over 3 grand. She is filing for divorce in Tacoma My question is my ex husband lives an hour away from me. Can I get his passport without his Dads signature to go on vacation out of the country? A single parent raises a child single handedly. Family law & practice. How hard is it when one parent lives in one state and the other lives in another. Is this legal should I pursue it? Also, will the judge agree to revoke the signed consent letter that I gave her to travel out of the country with my daughter for her not honoring her verbal agreement after I had made reservations at a restaurant and had 20 guests attending? I purchased my children a cell phone to have phone time with, and of lately have not been getting any contact with them. I am the custodial parent and the non custodial parent does not pick him up or bring him back on time. First does the school have the right to with hold all information should I contact a teach in regard of my child for grades or otherwise? This is what you will need to look at though. I have joint custody of my 12yr. There is no question that she will not heed the warning and attempt to manipulate and control the situation this weekend by refusing to bring him home again. One time he kept him for 4 months and the police wouldnt do anything about it. Now that he knows he is home and not going anywhere he will talk to him again. Updated: 22.50. Once they are found in contempt it is a criminal charge and there are consequences. He continues to do this and get away with it because he can!!!!! I would also ask the police where your Mom lives what they would do. In fact I was paying him an extra $20 a month over what I was supposed to pay, and buying things for my daughter. I live in Indiana and I have a set of newborn twins. I was on chemo therapy and I showed at every court date. It can also occur when the parents have joint physical custody in this case, even though the parent taking the child has physical custody rights to the child, he or she is still interfering with the other parents scheduled custodial rights. (PStheir mother refuses to allow any medical assistance and help from professionals to either of the boys). I recommend anyone When the couple was married and decided to have children, the state was not involved in how the child would be raised by two the two adults who consented to have children. If you would like to continue helping us improve Mass.gov, join our user panel to test new features for the site. email me I work in Family Law Documents I can help with easy filing and court costs in your stateI know the things attorneys dont want you to know. Just because parents dont like each other doesnt mean the child stops liking themSTOP IT, I have put a motion for my ex to have supervised visits but he has visitation tomorrow and the court hasnt given me a court date .. what do I do. Texas officers state this is a civil matter and I will have to call an attorney. The non-custodial parent has not signed the agreement out of spite at this point. You may also be referred to other types ofalternative dispute resolution. By teh way- she has heard nothing from CPS at this point. She came home the next day. TAKE THOSE BABIES AWAY BUT IF MOMMA DOES LOVE THEM, AND HASNT ABUSED THEM HAVE THE COURT ORDER COUNSELING, BECAUSE A MOTHER AND CHILD BOND IS STRONGI CANT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU SAY, BC ITS A THREE SIDED STORY, YOUR SIDE, HERS AND HE TRUTH LET THEM BE WITH DADDY FOR NOW, DONT PIT THEM AGAINST THIER MOMMA. Take the weekend your child is visiting the other parent and look for another job youll probably have one by Monday and this will all be a moot point!!! him, saying he wasnt going back to Florida at all if hes gonna get arrested. Im not an attorney, but I would say no on removing the child from school yourself that may be kidnapping or at least disruptive to the child and not look good for you. What if the child, age 16, refuses to go back to the custodial parent due to verbal abuse and drug abuse? I guess I was nit picking about the heater, I just wanted to show how she does what she wants amd gets away with it. Unfortunately, there are a lot of internal illegal favors done within the system. Start by keeping a journal, and report everything that happens after the other parent becomes the absent parent, it will save your ass in court later. PLEASE HELP How are we to protect our children if the laws are not enforced. She is more concerned with having power and control over them. Peace be with you. I am writing you in desperation. I know it sounds like a stupid question but I want to be sure that he cant take my child away from me. Dont be selfish and controlling. Use this button to show and access all levels. With time spent in early childhood development classes. In March of this year I was contacted by DCFS in Illinois about sexual abuse to my daughter by her mothers husband, I was given custody of my daughter at that time as her mother was charged with neglect. Doing so is not healthy for your and in the end it rubs off on the kids and those your around. He didnt even show up for her birthday party, instead he went to his girlfriends daughters(not even his child) birthday party that was just a couple days after our daughters birthdayDo I take him to court for not exercising visitation or do I keep lying to my little girl about why her dad doesnt see her and keep trying to get him to see her? She hasnt seen them in 6 months and is 2 years behide in child support. Now if a third party is interfering and has association with one parent who may be interfering that parent is still guilty as they are culpable to the situation by not addressing the problem as to not directly effect them. Stop thinking that you as a mother are more important then fathers. What should I do? We believe that the children have been left alone unsupervised since the incident of assault happened and that their mother is verbally abusive to the 7 year old. One time we ran out of court after her just so he could tell her he loves her and she acted like he was a monster. If she is willing, the least expensive way to do it, barring all attorneys, is through a court appointed mediator. I found out after calling and texting many times that his mother took her on a cruise out of the country without my consent and without her father. Also the new guys job may require relocation at some point and the ex will do everything he can to stop it he actually told me to take him to court if I wanted to take my daughter on vacation to China. to file a report for kidnapping and Custodial Interference. police ? v. isnt this saying if the kids want to call they can, not the parents. I cant let this go on and I have been passive enough. My son is incarcerated for a year and wants to write to his son and call an talk with him, he has visitation rights already in place. He said he left voice messages. (he leaves for work before she comes home from school and he is gone all night and sleeps in mornings, so on the days she goes to school they dont see each other so she is basically raising herself. My 16 y/o needs a LOT of help w/ school and NC is not the sharpest tool in the shed. they arent telling me anything???????? I am very worried as the kids told my husband that she is getting a new house. She says she filed charges on Friday which is same day we filed for custody and we had our hearing on Tuesday after the holiday weekend. Grandparents have absolutely no power in a custody matter unless the natural parents are deceasedor incompetenteven if the parents are in jail they have to have some say in the situation when it comes to adoption unless it is ordered by a judge ex parte. My mom was a drug addict and my sister and I were forced to fend for Finally one day she told me she was being kicked out due to accusations of drug use/sales. and so does the other alienated parent involved that hasnt seen my exs step daughter in over a year! She recently start denying my visitation right and I had to get the police involved. If not, then no! How do i deal with a school that refuses to release records to me when a judge has ordered that i have access to school and medical records. Hi, heres my situation I am the step mother to a wonderful 11 yeat old boy. Blair Parker. But If you let him beat you, then he won. It would still be going on if the child had not found her fathers phone number in her mothers wallet while she was passed out, we wouldnt have gotten to see her. The Courts will see you as exaggerating and harassing and would wonder how you could even prove it I doubt she is taking capsules, but drops, do you count them or something? ok to get a quick sum of whats going on I have two state on my back for child support. After four years she had done nothing about visitation. Am I at risk legally for arrest for kidnapping or how close to what Ive done am I to custodial/non-custodial interference? If you are married, your spouse went to visit family in another state, then refused to come back and let me see the children. If not, you need to concentrate on giving those babies all of the love and affection you can, and not speaking poorly of him or his mother, and not making your babies upset and worried or trying to get them to say bad things about the other parent. And then dont discuss anything else until you two have worked out exactly what is going to happen and then make the changes sound fun and normal, do not guilt the child about what you or the other parent have to do. She is ADHD. Plz help. however if you do get the child i would file a motion ASAP and state the child resides with you at the time of filing and as for custody, state the living condition, and your reasons. The only thing in your above comment that is troubling is that he gave your 4 year old PTSD and coached him to lie. Oh, thats why you get child support? 3) My daughter and adopted son ( my exs son) are being home schooled, without me knowing about it. { this all started when i meet some one else, He tried to get me back then , I told him I was pregnat, and he said he didnt care we would raise it as our own. It will not be until they are adults that they can ask about them. He says they do not want to talk to me. 1) My ex has blocked me from contact with my daughter for the past 3 weeks. But for Christmas he gets here to NC early December. You may be surprised to see he may give you what you want if he sees you kindness and can trust you again. Is there a pending case for Contempt or Emergency Return been filed in that said state of jurisdiction? Shes a lawyer with friends in high places in Mexico so how does my friend get her boy back? If so SHAME ON YOU! 4thed. But, right now he is in too much pain to even stand more than five min. Needless to say, visitation will not occur again until we resolve the visitation schedule to be exact dates and have an enabling clause for law enforcement if neccessary. If this is not possible then your recourse is court. a parent who has lost rights to his own biological child have standing as a custodian parent of someone elses child, My husbands ex wife refuses to follow the court order to drop his son off for visits once a week. My son said hed beat on him the entire weekend. Child missed 1 week of school last year as a result of moms actions and felt as though she would not be up to par in school because of moms actions. high and not only did I ever believe he was molesting our son, but I dont My ex doesnt let me take our son any other than 48 hour a month. Additionally you may call the local police to do what is called a well visit. i would appreciate any feedback. When I had my check book and could have written a check for the 620.00. I am in the horrible position of being abused in my second marriage. Sweetcajun, I dont mean to be disrespectful, but what eutopian socity do you live in? mother of 2 year old who.has full sol.custody and decision making, can not afford an attorney any longer. At this time you can file a police report, which you need to do immediately then they can put out an APB. There is no law about communication between the adults. This is another way I found she can get out of a contempt charge since my daughter says she doesnt want to go due to lies from her mother. In the eyes of the law you are guilty of one of the most damaging moral issues in our society. To meet her mother. Because thats exactly where he wants you. Meanwhile she called 6 times saying she missed us that week at her moms. im trying to make an effort here but the bus only goes so far into fairborn. He is a gentle and loving human being. Also he makes him stand in a corner if he doesnt finish all his food. 4 years ago I was divorced and immediately served with an order of protection spent my daughters birthday in jail because I called her mom to ask to meet an hour later than previous scheduled and before I new it probation and classes when the only violence Ive ever exerted was at 12 yrs involving a BB gun and a bird that still bothers me, my ex had every court tactic you can think of and my court min are the longest in the state of Arizona anyone has ever seen and after pumiling me to a severe depression she then tried to terminate my parental rights all together. And all this past week after he pulled that on me and said that hes going for Full/Soul custody so I cant see my son ever again. Best wishes for you and your son. She flashes a smile to the judge and says she wont do it again, and she gets off. So I was granted full sole legal and physical custody and father gets no visitations until he goes to court and pleads with judge. Not all judges will instate make up time so keep that in mind. Hi Jay I represented myself in court a few timesI am currently in a kidnapping situation with my child..if you need assistance fillin out forms for your state to file contempt charges let me know.if you need help preparing documents to file for custody I can help you with that as wellwhat state do you live in? Each time they were left unsupervised and left. What exactly is joint custody? Ms. R.S. I told him I could only give my grandson to the grandparents. ahlilah@yahoo.com. What if there is no custody agreement. This consult session serves as a wonderful opportunity to share your circumstances, ask questions and discuss cost. Is there anything I can do? I had night shift for the firs 3 months of this babys life as well as babysat all the time. I hope it all works out. Originally he got her weds and every other weekend. App. My ex and I are currently 4 1/2 hours away from each other. When she files this it will be helpful to do so with a police report that shows there is domestic violence. You will need to file a relocation notice as well. Again, how do you know he didnt give the medication? There is no place you can go in the usa even if the state doesnt comply with the uccjae home state laws of jurisdiction. I know my daughter, and she will talk on with others and with me when she is not in their care. After seeing my daughter I received a text from her stating that if my mother or I were to violate court orders again she would call the police. Can I file custodial interference or harassment or anything to prevent him from doing this again ? He leaves on Sunday for a week and am not comfortable with him going. And how should he go about securing his rights to see his children? Page 7, section 6 .4 states Unless otherwise ordered by the court, both parents always have the right: And Legal Aide will not help us. M.P., 447 Mass. YES YOU WOULD.In the judges eyes it would be mean to both the mother and the child to do that. The handcuffed me like i was some kind of crimnal. I would have to say you can file a motion for visitation on the matter where you are telling the judge that you want to see your sibling that you have been separated from and see what a judge says. I want to say, what does it matter if he has a felony charge from 3 yrs ago? When this happens the pain of rejection is intensified. But we are just getting the runaround about court and things like that. Him being arrested at your home makes it appear that you fraternize with people who deserve to be arrested. The question you are asking can she get temporary custody until they go to court? 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